Friday, May 11, 2012

military spouses...

Today is Military Spouse Appreciation Day. One of my friends posted this on her blog and I thought that I would repost it! I have met some amazing ladies in my military life and some of those I still have in my life today. What amazing ladies they are and I treasure their friendship!

Lots of moving...Moving...Moving...Moving far from home...
Moving two cars, three kids and one dog...all riding with HER of course.
Moving sofas to basements because they won't go in THIS house;
Moving curtains that won't fit. Moving jobs and certifications and professional development hours.
Moving away from friends. Moving toward new friends.
Moving her most important luggage: her trunk full of memories.

Often waiting...Waiting...Waiting... Waiting for housing, Waiting for orders.
Waiting for deployments. Waiting for phone calls.
Waiting for reunions. Waiting for the new curtains to arrive.
Waiting for him to come home, for dinner...AGAIN!

They call her 'Military Dependent', but she knows better:
She is fiercely In-Dependent.
She can balance a check book; handle the yard work;
Fix a noisy toilet; bury the family pet...
She is intimately familiar with drywall anchors and toggle bolts.
She can file the taxes, sell a house, buy a car;
Or set up a move...all with ONE Power of Attorney.

She welcomes neighbors that don't welcome her.
She reinvents her career with every PCS; locates a house in the desert, The Arctic, Or the deep south.
And learns to call them all 'home'. She MAKES them all home.

Military Wives are somewhat hasty...They leap into:
Decorating, Leadership, Volunteering, Career alternatives, Churches,
and friendships. They don't have 15 years to get to know people.
Their roots are short but flexible. They plant annuals for themselves and
perennials for those who come after them.

Military Wives quickly learn to value each other: they connect over coffee,
rely on the spouse network, accept offers of friendship and favors.
record addresses in pencil...

Military Wives have a common bond. The Military Wife has a husband unlike other husbands;
his commitment is unique. He doesn't have a 'JOB.' He has a 'MISSION' that he can't just decide to quit...
He's on-call for his country 24/7. But for her, he's the most unreliable guy in town!
His language is foreign: TDY, PCS, OPR, SOS, ACC, BDU, ACU, BAR, CIB, TAD...
And so, a Military Wife is a translator for her family and his.
She is the long- distance link to keep them informed; the glue that holds them together.

A Military Wife has her moments. She wants to wring his neck,
Dye his uniform pink, refuse to move to Siberia, but she pulls herself together.
Give her a few days, a travel brochure, a long hot bath, a pledge to the flag,
a wedding picture, and she goes, she packs, he moves, she follows.

Why? What for? How come? You may think it is because she has lost her mind.
But actually it is because she has lost her heart. It was stolen from her by a man,
who puts duty first, w
ho longs to deploy, who salutes the flag,
And whose boots in the doorway remind her that as long as he is her Military Husband,
she will remain his military wife and would have it no other way.


Mrs.305 said...

Wow! I love this great post!

Katie said...

This really touched my heart this morning! From one military wife to another, thanks for posting!

Caroline said...

I didn't even know it was yesterday! I'll have to tell Miles to buy me a belated gift - ha! :) (but I guess I'd have to get him something too afterall, he was my military spouse) :)

Anonymous said...

Thank you for sharing. I have been a military wife for 34 years, and have been/AM proud of it. Marion

Anonymous said...
Thought you would like this video of another women with a husband with a TBI.
beautiful strong women who love the Lord. Both of you.