tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post1811261054923678521..comments2023-11-02T01:30:07.764-07:00Comments on Ben and Katie: all i know...Ben and Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15486735943996376819noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-82820833421512335472011-07-01T05:41:36.731-07:002011-07-01T05:41:36.731-07:00I think about you two and pray for you two often. ...I think about you two and pray for you two often. <br />Praying for renewed spirit and strength to get through the difficult days that aren't easy or fun.<br />Loved the picture of you two.Jenn W.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11018885409044374807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-75359463169554189052011-06-30T21:55:41.576-07:002011-06-30T21:55:41.576-07:00It is so hard to wait for what we really want but ...It is so hard to wait for what we really want but I know your husband will get back to the place he was. He will be 100% what he was before the accident. I know it will happen for you, either here in time or in the next life for eternity. Let the faith of others buoy you up. There are so many prayers going to God on your behalf. He hears us all and will answer us in in time and eternity. God bless you for living your life and being an inspiration to us all, even on days that totally suck.A. B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04898416810018837782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-32688725351001821342011-06-30T21:24:54.626-07:002011-06-30T21:24:54.626-07:00You two are so strong... I don't know how you ...You two are so strong... I don't know how you do it! By the grace of our God, he gives you that strength. Prayers for continued healing (of course!), and prayers for some times of JOY headed your way. Hopefully you had some of that this weekend too :) Hugs from the other side of the mountains.jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10437599901446706396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-30521690822458330622011-06-30T21:20:22.624-07:002011-06-30T21:20:22.624-07:00Hi Katie and Ben,
I took care of my husband when h...Hi Katie and Ben,<br />I took care of my husband when he had cancer and I would go through the same emotions. God's Grace is sufficient. He gives us Grace each day to do what is set before us. Each day is a new day. Our life is not our own, In Him we live and move and have our being. I pray The Lord would strengthen you and Ben to keep your eyes on Him who is the author and finisher of our faith. Looking at this new photo of you and Ben, Look at where The Lord has brought Ben, Ben looks good, we get impatient but God is always right on time. We get tired and weary but The Lord has you. Praise The Lord for His Goodness. You are in my prayers.Diane Pnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-44867239686339898362011-06-30T21:19:54.552-07:002011-06-30T21:19:54.552-07:00Girl, you and your man are my prayers. I love the...Girl, you and your man are my prayers. I love the love you have for each other. I am so blessed by your unwavering trust in our mighty God. I wish I could bless you guys right back- lifting you up in my prayers.<br />Hugs.The Dadej Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17398979784901643714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-7658090495430991522011-06-30T20:27:27.622-07:002011-06-30T20:27:27.622-07:00I don't know what to say . It made me so sad t...I don't know what to say . It made me so sad to feel your pain . I guess at this time you have to depend on your readers to help you through this by praying to Jesus . I will pray fog you both tonight . God bless <br />Paulapaula roemerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10429223142164185049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-42802735327794650182011-06-30T20:12:50.846-07:002011-06-30T20:12:50.846-07:00Hi Katie - I'm not sure if you've mentione...Hi Katie - I'm not sure if you've mentioned what Ben's coughing is related to, but I wanted to just put it out there that it may be allergies? My daughter was coughing for almost 2 weeks straight and only at night, and it turned out to be allergies. She is on Zyrtec and Singular now and the coughing has stopped. Just thought I'd mention this along...Cooking Up Faithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17758953626323692464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-87364510116588864252011-06-30T18:32:02.478-07:002011-06-30T18:32:02.478-07:00Katy...it felt as if I were reading a Psalm when I...Katy...it felt as if I were reading a Psalm when I read your words. So heartfelt and real, unedited and raw, yet filled with love and a commitment to God and Ben. I think that's just the way Jesus wants us all the time. Thanks for reminding me.Tim Mossholderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12929427158231344993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-14228433867070812092011-06-30T17:36:31.725-07:002011-06-30T17:36:31.725-07:00This post is so incredibly honest and I commend yo...This post is so incredibly honest and I commend you for being so open with us about your journey. I know so many people tell you this but stay strong and keep your head up! You are doing what so many others probably wouldn't do or would have given up so long ago. It's okay to not be happy all the time with the cards that you were dealt!! Some days it just doesn't seem fair while other days it makes perfect sense, maybe today is just one of those day where it just totally sucks!! Hang in there and we are all praying for you (which I hope helps a little bit each day). Your dedication to Ben is so incredibly inspiring and I am so incredibly humbled that you have allowed us on this journey with you!! You're doing a WONDERFUL job!!Ashley Codyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00479094252125556657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-82594247919396639822011-06-30T15:43:20.762-07:002011-06-30T15:43:20.762-07:00I think it's ok to be sad & say it SUCKS s...I think it's ok to be sad & say it SUCKS sometimes! I think those are the moments God is saying " I know I gave you hard, now what are you going to do?" Your attitude is so amazing & right- Pray , "Dear Jesus, if it's your will I want my man back whole & healthy!" That's all we can do is pray & that is all he asks when we are struggling. Hang in there you are doing great!Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17370740043122954244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-10136566469994494052011-06-30T12:37:39.171-07:002011-06-30T12:37:39.171-07:00I am so so sorry Katie. I can't imagine your p...I am so so sorry Katie. I can't imagine your pain, so I will lift up your pain to the Lord - the only one who can understand.Cooking Up Faithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17758953626323692464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-81194331562048341822011-06-30T12:10:50.507-07:002011-06-30T12:10:50.507-07:00You are amazing! I know there are times you don&#...You are amazing! I know there are times you don't feel that way, but you both are. You hit the nail on the head when you said you want things to be back to normal and this is now the new normal. It is hard, but reflect back on how far you have come. Hugs! I have traveled a down the road with my husband and injuries, (nothing to your extent) but it has been full of obstacles and hurdles and impatience. We hang onto each other and try to find a way to enjoy the roller coaster. Sometimes we even get crazy and put our hands up in the air. :) Hope I made you smile! Have a blessed day! DaniAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-69022296445892312402011-06-30T11:45:28.801-07:002011-06-30T11:45:28.801-07:00I know life can be exhausting and weary, but you t...I know life can be exhausting and weary, but you two have such a strong love that will survive it all. This too shall pass. You both will continue to heal and Ben will get there. He is such a hard worker and with a wonderful woman like you by his side it makes all the difference in the world. You two are always in my prayers.Alliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13227260412683649907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-29385938706072144972011-06-30T11:30:32.621-07:002011-06-30T11:30:32.621-07:00{{{{Big giant hugs from California times four!}}}}...{{{{Big giant hugs from California times four!}}}} <br /><br />You are so much stronger than you give yourself credit for and by all means, wallow in the cr@ppy days. Haven't figured out why we need them yet but they're there. Know that He will guide you through them and all of us are there for you and praying for you both. <br /><br />The pictures and videos you post are amazing! Each time you upload a pic of Ben, he looks a little different from the last, more healing, more determination, more love for you. I wish you could see my son's look when he sees how far Ben has come; I know M draws strength from his progress and sees first-hand that anything is possible. <br /><br />Miss you! Lots of love from the T's!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-20824353910097138742011-06-30T10:40:17.723-07:002011-06-30T10:40:17.723-07:00I really can't imagine what you go through eve...I really can't imagine what you go through every day. It would suck! Cry it out though. I'll keep praying for you!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07840757670404382268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-60125983145549502972011-06-30T09:59:34.525-07:002011-06-30T09:59:34.525-07:00You are right to feel sad about it all. There must...You are right to feel sad about it all. There must be times when you miss the old Ben so much, and progress is so slow. But there is progress. You are very brave and true to stand by him and help him work for his progress. I hope God and the scriptures strengthen you for touch days like this, but you wouldn't be a human woman if you didn't feel this way sometimes.<br /> I imagine that the same thing you are saying over and over to Ben is what God is saying over and over to you. He loves you.<br />And through you he is also saying it to Ben. Blessings, and have a good day.Lynnaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14717761180835909042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-19663866219175041042011-06-30T09:53:41.461-07:002011-06-30T09:53:41.461-07:00I think God's purpose is for Ben and yourself ...I think God's purpose is for Ben and yourself to be an example. One of how to follow Christ no matter what. One to show how to be thankful even in the dark times. <br />You and Ben are such an inspiration to so many people in so many different ways. <br /><br />So yes His purpose is to set an example of a strong Christ loving couple.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10255471059118804954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-90582146490072484722011-06-30T09:23:17.256-07:002011-06-30T09:23:17.256-07:00You are a blessing to others through all this. Yo...You are a blessing to others through all this. Your love for each other is a beautiful example for all to see. Keep trusting that God will work this too out for your good and His glory (Romans 8:28). Keep fighting the good fight, sister. You are shining Christ's light to all those around you!Theresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09807434285554893291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-40559321039938342582011-06-30T08:51:04.982-07:002011-06-30T08:51:04.982-07:00Oh Katie your posts make my eyes leak but that is ...Oh Katie your posts make my eyes leak but that is okay. I feel like I know you both and I do in God's eyes. Keep loving that man forever and ever. God Bless you both.Carol Stewardnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-42870196725789993162011-06-30T08:43:20.189-07:002011-06-30T08:43:20.189-07:00Lovely and beautiful and heartfelt post. I am tru...Lovely and beautiful and heartfelt post. I am truly sorry about how hard life is. Truly.<br /><br />Continuing to pray for you and for healing and for the strength that only can come from the Lord.Rachel @ Finding Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06217317211649327419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-9221081719669311552011-06-30T08:35:11.274-07:002011-06-30T08:35:11.274-07:00What an honest post!
We will pray and now know wha...What an honest post!<br />We will pray and now know what how to pray for you.<br />Thanks for sharing.thechattymommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03833123021305771365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-85748001917041515112011-06-30T08:33:28.109-07:002011-06-30T08:33:28.109-07:00You are so blessed that you two have such a sweet,...You are so blessed that you two have such a sweet, strong love. I think the best part about your story is that you are honest about these kinds of days, that life can make you weary but you keep pressing on. There is nothing inspiring about a story without hardship- it's not much of a story at all. I have confidence that God is writing the most amazing story for you and Ben, and though it may be all you can do to get through some days, the bigger picture will be beautiful.erikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09432371971747985519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090277881332820433.post-74573359839333627342011-06-30T08:32:35.644-07:002011-06-30T08:32:35.644-07:00My Dear Katie, I don't pretend to know what y...My Dear Katie, I don't pretend to know what you feel, or that I know what to say. I do know (as do you) that Father chose this for you, and He only chooses the best. Sometimes trusting that from Him is hard, BUT IT IS ALWAYS true. I love you and will trust Father to give you the peace that passes ALL understanding. Hugs, MarionAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com